If my spouse gets
to keep our house, does that prevent me from buying a new house and getting
a mortgage? What is my liability on the existing mortgage loan? According
to Tom Carmody of American Mortgage Corp., if the divorce decree awards the
house and the responsibility for its payment to one spouse, the other spouse
is able to immediately purchase a new home and apply for a new mortgage loan
without the current mortgage’s monthly
payment counted against them for qualification purposes.
However, the existing mortgage holder still considers both parties as liable
for the mortgage payments on the existing house. Failure to pay the
payment on time could affect the credit of both individuals. This liability
of the existing mortgage can only be removed by refinancing the loan,
doing a full assumption, or by the sale
of the property. For more information, call Tom at 952-915-5378.
So I'm still "liable." What if he doesn’t pay the
mortgage? Won’t
they come after me? Possible, but highly unlikely. If he doesn’t
pay, the mortgage company will serve a notice, then commence foreclosure. In
Minnesota, there are two types of foreclosure, foreclosure by advertisement (Chapter
580) and foreclosure by action (Chapter
581). Under §582.30
Subd. 2, a deficiency
judgment is not allowed (meaning they won't come after you personally) if foreclosure
is by advertisement and has a redemption period of six months or less. In reality,
the vast, vast majority of foreclosures are in that category, because that method
is the quickest and cheapest way to get the property back for the mortgage company.
Longer redemption periods exist for some agricultural property and properties
with 1/3 of the original mortgage paid down. §580.23
Subd. 2. The rare foreclosure by action takes place when
a huge deficiency is expected, e.g. an extremely expensive home has been trashed
or the market value has sunk. I have heard of cases where the V.A did obtain
deficiency judgments against veterans on foreclosed homes. I don’t think
they have that policy any more.
I'm still married. Can I get a mortgage without my spouse? Maybe. We usually refer to our house payments as our "mortgage," when actually we are paying on a "Note." The mortgage is a separate document that gives the lender the right to take the house back by foreclosure if we don't pay the Note. If you qualify by income and credit rating to buy a property without your spouse, you can sign a Note--but the lender may ask that your spouse sign the Mortgage. This will not obligate your spouse to pay anything. It will protect the lender if it needs to foreclose. We say in Minnesota that it takes one spouse to buy, but both to sell. So the lender will probably want the added security of having your spouse sign the document that allows them to foreclose if you don't pay the Note.
MYTHS ABOUT FAMILY LAW
MYTH: “The court will order everything to be sold and split.”
Usually the court will apportion property between the parties, unless
both parties want something sold or there aren’t enough liquid
assets to make a fair division.
MYTH: “I’m going to take him for everything he’s
got.”
Minnesota is a no-fault divorce state, and the court does not punish parties
for personal misbehavior by giving them less property. Under rare circumstances,
the court may award less property to a party who has engaged in financial
misbehavior.
MYTH: “It’s in my name so she can’t touch it.”
The court has the authority to award property owned by either party
to the other. The court may choose not to do this if one party owned
something before the marriage or if it was given to or inherited by
that party as an individual. The court is more concerned with when
or how property was acquired rather than whose name it is in.
MYTH: “When the kids get to be 14, they can decide where to live.”
The age where the court loses the power to tell a child where to live
is 18. But realistically, it is hard to tell some teenagers where to live.
MYTH: “It’s his word against mine. The court can’t do
anything.”
The court can decide who is telling the truth and rule accordingly.
GAMES PARENTS PLAY
Competing with the other parent
Bribing the child
Asking the child to be a spy
Asking the child to keep secrets
Making the child the parent
Ridiculing the other parent
Sending hostile messages with the child
Using the child or his things as a hostage.
WAYS TO RESPOND
Never reward stupid behavior with anger.
Listen to understand, not necessarily to be persuaded.
PARENTING PLAN RESOURCES ON THE INTERNET
http://www.parenting.umn.edu/professionals/classesTrainings/weAgree/index.html
Parental Guide to Making Child-Focused Decisions